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*** RIDE A BETTER
HORSE ... YOURS ***
Part 1
by Worth Miller
10 RULES TO MAKE
YOUR RIDING EXPERIENCE MORE REWARDING
1. Look after your own personal safety
first, then your horse's:
And, of course, the safety of anyone nearby.
Working with a horse is different from
working with smaller animals. Even a horse
who doesn't want to hurt you may do so by
accident. He has so much size, power and
quickness that a slight miscalculation on
his part can result in serious
injury to
someone. We have seen some very experienced
horse people who have been too close
and
were nailed by a horse who was just playing
and got a little careless.
Don't be careless
yourself.
2. The most important factor in having a
horse who wants to please you is genuine
caring on YOUR part!
Horses are very forgiving of the people who
truly love them ... even when we make
mistakes
that are frightening or even
painful.
3. Make learning fun for both of you!
Look for ways to make the horse feel
successful, not frustrated or angry.
REMEMBER ... you
are a team and it is not a
contest! If you get bored or frustrated
during a training session, change your
routine. If you aren't having fun, your
horse won't either. Use a LOT of praise and
smiles.
When you smile, it makes you feel
happy and your horse will sense this and
feel happy, too.
4. If it doesn't seem to be working, try
something else:
Helping your horse solve it's problems is a
lot of trial and error.
5. Be patient, persistent and consistent:
PATIENCE: Take the time it takes! Don't try
to get it all done in 1 day. Only if you are
willing
to take the time it takes doing the
basic stuff will you get the best results.
That doesn't mean you have to continue to do
the same boring things over and over. That
does mean that as you move forward and see
weaknesses, you must have the patience and
persistence to go back and fix
what isn't
right. As you are persistent asking what you
want, so you are consistent.
6. Always ask yourself "WHY?"
Don't make the "just" assumption, "the
horse is just being a stinker," or "just
wants to annoy me,"
or "that's just the way
he is." Horses have reasons for everything
they do. It often takes a long time to
understand the reason. Sometimes you won't
know for sure but you make an educated
guess.
In the case of sudden behavioral
changes, always look for a physical cause -
something that is causing pain or the
potential for pain.
7. Beware of shortcuts and quick fixes:
A horse doesn't develop a bad habit or
attitude in a day, and you aren't going to
fix it in 1 or 2 training sessions.
Physiologically, it takes three times as
long to change a habit as it did to
develop
it in the first place. The true "shortcut"
is to learn as much as you can, so you can
find
the true cause of the problem and
select the best method for solving it.
8. Always quit when you're both ahead:
It's so tempting to do it "one more time"
when things are going well. Besides risking
failure,
you also take away the horse's
feeling of success, which is what makes him
want to do it again tomorrow. ALWAYS praise
and make a BIG DEAL out of your horse's
success!
9. You don't always have to win!
Remember ... it is NEVER a contest!
Sometimes when you are simply getting
nowhere, leave it alone, rather than making
a big issue of a particular problem. Work on
other, totally unrelated
things that you and
your horse can enjoy together. After a few
weeks of this, if the problem comes up
again, the horse's entire attitude toward
you and it may have changes to the point
where he no longer sees it something to
worry about.
10. If you don't know ... ask!
If you have a problem that you can't
resolve, find someone you know AND trust to
help you. Or,
you are always welcome to
email us at worth@worthmiller.com and we
will be happy to try
to guide you.
Until next time, remember ... ALWAYS reward
the slightest try!
You CAN ride a better
horse ... yours!